fix(dashboard): action clicks give no feedback and snoozed cards never leave — reflect the actions store at render #1443

BUG (Drew, 2026-10-27): on the Plaid confirmation card he clicked acknowledge, answer (×3) and snooze — every click recorded an action (store shows them, state=new) and NOTHING on the card changed; the card would not go away. Two compounding causes: (1) the only consumer (orchestration-pass) runs hourly, so state changes lag up to an hour; (2) the dashboard renders no pending/applied state and does not suppress items at render time even though the actions store sits in the same process.
FIX: the dashboard itself must reflect the store immediately: after a click, the card patches in place to "sent · pending" and repeat clicks are disabled; an active snooze moves the card to the "Snoozed by you" strip AT RENDER (and on the async refresh) without waiting for the consumer; an acknowledged card renders quiet/collapsed. This must cover items rendered from the orchestration GOALS section (linedUp) as well as the tiers — the Plaid card comes from goals[].linedUp (ref orch:goal_6f48d745f802).
Acceptance: click snooze on a card → it leaves the main list immediately and appears in the snoozed strip; click acknowledge → visible pending state; no duplicate actions from repeat clicks.