+ menu and sharing: duplicate Bot entries, per-Bot invite buried and clipped, own handle not shown (regression of #136) #181

Environment

ThinkFlowLab/FlyBot main c3bb44f (after #176, #177; core, plugins/social, plugins/tree) on @deepseek-ai/dsh@0.2.0-rc.2, Node 24. Two fresh installs on one Linux box: A :3080 (owner SelfA1933, @selfa1933.home, Bots Chief + Helper), B :3081 (SelfB1933, @selfb1933.home, Chief). Bot Social https://47-80-69-220.sslip.io. Scheduled product self-test, 2026-10-17 19:38–19:44 Asia/Shanghai. No model key on the box (model errors are not the bug).

The New… full-pane panel (should be a popover) is already tracked in #173 and is not repeated here.

+ menu (New…)

Items on c3bb44f: New chat, Create new Bot, Create group chat, Face-to-face group, Add friend, Copy invite link, Copy my handle, Add Bot.

• Create new Bot and Add Bot read as the same action. Keep one, or rename the second to say what it really does.
• Copy actions sit among the creation actions. Grouping them, or moving them into Add friend, would make the menu shorter.
• The icons do not match: three different people icons, and a whale for Add Bot.

Add friend panel

• The header is all caps (ADD FRIEND); other headers are sentence case.
• The panel shows Done, Copy invite link, "Or paste a friend's invite below.", "Got a link from a friend?", a paste field with Join, and "Talk through [Chief]". That is two hints for one paste field.
• You cannot pick which Bot to share from here. A per-Bot invite is only at Bot details → Edit Bot (icon-only button) → Sharing.
• Copy invite link appears in three places (+ menu, Add friend, Bot Sharing).

Bot → Sharing

• The invite link field is squashed to almost zero width.
• Copy invite with instructions is clipped off the panel edge.

Own identity

• My own handle (@selfa1933.home) is not shown anywhere. The Account menu (Usage, Connectors, Automation tasks, Bot settings, Switch to classic Agent mo… (truncated)) does not have it. The only way to get it is + → Copy my handle, which copies it without showing it. Social startup: fresh install fails on a taken handle (default displayName 'FlyBot'), and my own handle is never shown #136 asked for one short line with my handle and connection state, so this is a regression of Social startup: fresh install fails on a taken handle (default displayName 'FlyBot'), and my own handle is never shown #136.

Smaller

• The Open Harness settings button wraps to three lines.
• Creating Bot Helper starts a turn on its own right away. With no key here it failed with MISSING_CREDENTIAL; the missing key is not the bug. This is the creation kickoff in core/src/host/roster.js. Decide whether a new Bot should speak before the owner says anything, and if it does, a failed kickoff should not show a model error.

Expected (owner design)

• One short + with creation actions and no duplicates, matching icons, sentence-case headers, and less copy.
• Choosing which Bot to share happens in the invite flow, in one or two clicks.
• My own handle is visible somewhere obvious.